Writers are sometimes strange, often introspective, frequently emotional, always (hopefully) highly imaginative, commonly impetuous, and every now and again unpredictable. Writers: those people who burn with desire to dance with words.

I’ve been dancing for a long time. For many many years. Writing has been for me a long and passionate love affair. At nine years old, I would creep to that dark corner of the dining room on the second floor of the three-storey walk-up where my family lived. There I would nestle in the attached seat of a 1950s wood and cast-iron school desk my Nana had given us years before, a small desk that my father had crammed into the out-of-the-way corner of the room, between the end of my mother’s immense dark oak buffet and the old cast iron radiator near the wall. In that corner was a narrow window which looked out on the murky shadows that fell between our house and the one standing six feet away, blocking the light. Through that window, I could just see a patch of azure sky above, and hear the muffled squeak of chains grinding on metal as the children down the block swung on the old lumbering swing set in the park. And there I would sit, writing away, loving it more than the swings–more, even, at that moment (and at most moments) than whatever had caused the giggling at the park.

At fourteen, I was still finding secluded little nooks where I could sit with pencil and notepad, listening to the rain, smelling the tangy wet air, and writing writing writing.

When I was fifteen, my mom and dad went out and found me a hunkin’ old manual Royal typewriter. That grey metal behemoth was the most treasured gift I had ever received at that point in my life (the Easy Bake Oven when I was six was pretty good too), and never once did they complain when, long after they had gone to bed at night, the floor shook with the vibration caused by the tips of my fingers crashing down hard on those old springy keys as the typewriter rested precariously on an old card table in my bedroom.

I still find in the act of writing a contentment and release that few other activities have ever offered. Yes, of course, there is the love I feel for the man who makes me whole, who brings me joy by his very presence in my life: the man whose voice lifts me, the man who can look into my eyes and make the world around me vanish, the man I know as deeply and as intimately as I know myself. For him I have an indescribable love, in him I feel an indescribable contentment. There are children too, children whom I have held in the night, and sung to; children who used to lay in their beds, falling into dreams as they listened to me read The Wind in the Willows from the shadowy hall. These are the children I rocked, the children I bandaged and kissed. These are the children who are no longer helpless, but for whom I still hold a fierce love that steps way over the border of impartial judgement and calm consideration. But writing? Writing is something that was always there, inside me from the beginning. That thing which drove me before the others came along. That thing which defined me before the words “loving wife” and “devoted mother” ever became words to describe me.

Certainly, I have loved spending hours reading books on the “do’s and don’t’s” of remedial correctness. After all, spelling and grammar must be learned (now more than ever in this text-happy world); vocabulary, composition theory, syntax—all these aspects of speaking and writing words need learning, discussion, practice, constructive critiquing. But if words are to be spoken and written in ways which make us feel, then we must dance with words, and allow our children to dance with them too. It is error to say that there are no rules to language except those the writer makes for himself, but it is also error to always harp on every misplaced comma.

There are times to draw grammar trees and define imperative and interrogative sentences, but there are also times when we must simply enjoy the flow of words, revel in the sounds of words, feel the meter without having to name it or dissect it. There are times when we must dance.

Jean Foster Akin

Finding Time to Write

One of the more frustrating aspects of being a writer is finding time to write.

If you are working towards publication, or your first book is in production and you are working on book number two (the latter being the happy position in which I find myself at the moment), then you know how important it is not to allow too much time to elapse between writing sessions.

But published authors are not the only writers, obviously. They are not the only writers who need to write. There are many writers who are not focused on publication who feel just as much urgency to sit and write as any other writer out there. They are poets and journal-keepers, they are the writers of family stories who keep family history safe for generations to come. They are those who write on any number of subjects in any number of genres, and they find it difficult sometimes to find the time to get all that great stuff on paper.

Here are a few problems we all face as writers in finding the time to write, and my thoughts on how we might manage the conflicts between the world which presses in around us (insisting on our attention), and the haven of the writing nook.

  • Poor Prioritizing: We all know that in order to have a relaxed, productive, and ultimately satisfactory writing session, we cannot be distracted by the odor of the overflowing garbage pail in the kitchen, the whining dog we have yet to feed, or the child who needs our attention. We must get certain things settled before launching into hours of uninterrupted writing time, because, contrary to popular theory, your Muse does not come before your children, your hungry dog, or the sanitary conditions of your home! Handle the needs of those important people in your life first (and don’t rush them through like they are telemarketers!), take care of the dog if it’s your turn today, and get rid of the garbage in the kitchen. Then you can settle down and get in some writing time with a clear conscience.
  • Disorganization: If possible, keep your computer in one room, designated as your writing room. It should be a room as free from distractions as possible (no TV, little or no “foot traffic,” etc). Keep all your reference books nearby, and all your multi-colored pens/pencils and notebooks handy. Designate these items as YOURS. This is not selfish as long as you see that everyone else has THEIRS. There are certain tools a writer needs, and needs close, while she is working; allowing the children to borrow your dictionary because they’ve lost their own only leads to you running around the house like a chicken with her head cut off searching for your dictionary when you need it. You’ll be getting up time and time again to go find the thesaurus Johnny left upstairs, and the notebook with your character sketches in it that little Jenny snagged as a drawing pad last Sunday. Also, once you find the room you want as your writing-place, don’t keep packing up and moving elsewhere throughout the month in an effort to change the scenery–this will only lead to YOU leaving your writing necessaries all over the house. Again: find your place and get your mind used to writing in that place; label your things so they aren’t used and then misplaced by the general population. Just those two actions on your part will cut down on many hours of search and rescue missions! 🙂
  • Distractions: Unless there is someone in your house other than you who pretty much always answers the telephone, you must screen your calls. The telephone is one of the biggest time wasters out there. When you are stuck on how to end a chapter, the ringing phone can be like the Siren’s call! Resist her, I beg you, or you will never get any writing done at all! Writers don’t get paid for wasting time–so don’t waste it! If your spouse or children call you during the day, they get priority. Everybody else can wait till after dinner.
  • Internet: this could be listed under “Distractions,” above, but the Internet is so pervasive in our culture, I think it deserves its own heading. When most of us write, we use, not an old Royal typewriter, but a computer. And most of us have our computers hooked up to the Internet. We use online dictionary and thesaurus sites for quick look-ups, and we search the Internet for any variety of information needed in a story on which we’re working. But many writers also sneak peeks throughout the day at email, Face Book, and Twitter accounts, and those “peeks” often distract them for many minutes to hours at a time! Does this sound like you? If the Internet has you hooked, designate a time for surfing or for answering email, preferably at the end of the day, not at the beginning. If possible, disconnect from the Internet (while writing creatively at least) and use the old standbys to support your writing: dictionaries, reference books from the library, tools for writers made of actual paper, in soft or hard cover–the same instruments used successfully for many years by exceptional writers of our past, before the Rise of the Machines.

I wish you productive, distraction-free writing today! 🙂

Jean Foster Akin

Don’t Be a Caspar Milquetoast!

 Maybe you’re too young to know who Caspar Milquetoast was–and I would be too except that my mother used to bring him up to me when I was not being direct with her, or when I wanted something but danced around asking for it outright, or when I wasn’t standing up for myself at school, or when I was, in some other way, not asserting myself as she thought I should. Caspar Milquetoast was a character developed by H.T. Webster for his cartoon series The Timid Soul, debuting way back in New York World, 1924. That was a LOOOONG time before I was born, and a long time before the Internet could show me what he looked like! But the way my mother described him made me understand exactly why she referred to him when remarking on peoples’ unneccessary timidity. Caspar was a noncommittal, wishy-washy fellow, a wimp, the kind of man (as his Creator H.T. Webster described him) who “speaks softly and gets hit with a big stick!”

Being a Caspar Milquetoast while writing is the same thing as “using a passive voice.” It’s writing in a way that doesn’t move your story along, or which saps your story of energy and drive. You don’t want to be mousy and passive when you write–you want to grab your readers and drag them into your story with purpose and confidence—even if they don’t see all the ways you’re doing it. In fact, they don’t have to see all the ways you’re doing it, they shouldn’t see all the ways you’re doing it—your job is just to see that it’s done.

Caveat: Passivity in writing drains your story of immediacy and force, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t times when you will use the passive voice, and quite successfully, to add to your story. We cannot, as writers, follow all the “rules” by every dot and tittle. Strunk’s The Elements of Style should be required reading for every high school composition student, but all writing cannot be expected to embrace that level of preciseness, that level of exactness, that direct and active voice, because then all novels would read like text books. So while we cannot declare that we must never, ever, ever use the passive voice, we can say that we need to use it carefully when we write, because, in general, passivity slows the story and steals  impact.

Consider these sentences:

Sirens were screaming in the distance. (passive)

Sirens screamed in the distance. (active)

Cam’s eyes were beginning to widen. (passive)

Cam’s eyes widened. (active)

He took their bowls and went to to the sink. (passive)

He took their bowls to the sink. (active)

Her eyes were encircled by dark rings. (passive)

Dark circles framed her eyes. (active)

A scream exited her mouth. (both passive and obvious)

She screamed, and her lips contorted in a rictus of pain. (active and much more descriptive)

You can see how active the second sentences are in each of the examples above. While you’re writing, watch for passivity. If you feel it is necessary, by all means keep it in. But if it isn’t necessary (and it so often isn’t) route it out with courage and resolve! Don’t be a Caspar Milquetoast!

Jean Foster Akin